Lifeless Relations!

Why on earth each day I hear about fights and break-ups? Each moment there is someone crying, someone going through a terrible time, misunderstanding, someone winning a break up or probably, it can be worst. Relations! I tell you. But let me clear: I don’t consider relations as only love or seeing each other. For me it includes all possible relations i.e. Love, friendship, anything that connects 2 people together would be considered as RELATION! Talk about an 8 yearlong relation or maybe 1, it can be 6 months as well; love diminishes or it gets converted to adjustments/compromise to anything. 

For instance, my friend was dating for 2 years. If you see them, you say they are madly in love. They were engaged as well. And one fine day, he comes to me and says: “I have moved on” reason being too much of fights. Like can fights have no solution? Or probably they are bored of each other? Or may be expectations are left unfulfilled? 

Another instance would be of that of best of friends. People are known to be loved more by friends rather than lovers, yet there are people giving up on friends just as they have entered into a new relation. Imagine years long or probably childhood friends giving up their friendship for the new relation. Immaturity, How foolish can this be? I have always been of the view that friendship lasts long. But after I witnessed this, I was shocked. Left broken and in a way felt betrayed. I agree to a point that they have their priority/preference set on their loved ones, but that doesn’t mean that the entire friendship is on a toss. Is it really??

Another would be that of father son relation. A son throws his parents out once he is able to earn, settled, satisfy him. What about the years where his parents have struggled to get him to this phase? I don’t understand why we are being so materialistic for each and every thing in life.

 I find it very crappy as when one chooses a relation over the other. Things have been changing over the years. Earlier, relations were maintained till death. As time passed, relations have been on toss for materialistic reasons. My point is why can’t we give more and expect less? Why can’t we handle all relations together? Why are we giving up on everything, which once we loved, just to satisfy our ego?

My motive for this is solely to spread a message amongst everyone about things happening around intentionally/ unintentionally. Do you have any idea why? Please let me know.

Voyage of Existance

It is indeed beautiful,
How life created its own path.
All one need to do is- walk with intellect apart.
Common man prays wishes & cries for a better start,

Yet each day, he wants it to be the way he barks.
What is it that our future leads to?
No one has the answer or even clue to the above!
But what matters is: Belief in life & its lovely sway.
We are left alone, troubled & teased;
As life adores playing with emotions & grieves.
Only that, the best is to be followed by: We later understand.
It’s like a curve, alike the one below the nose,
That has immense pleasure, as when you are given a Rose.
Yes! It is by god’s grace; we have an existence,
And it is only by him that decides our path & ambition.
Life is corresponding to creator’s wish, which gives us roses as well as thorns.
And it is only us, who should seek for happiness,
As only to what hard work would unveil….
Life is indeed beautiful if we make it,
Sweet with a pinch, but sour in material!

Forever & Ever

                               

A Friend is hard to find,

Some one like u, I never mind!

At times, I miss u
At times, I wish to be with u
At times, I cry about the memories with u
All this explains about my friendship with u.
But I question, is it the same with U?
For u, may be I am always in queue,
But for me, U are the best amongst few.
My stupid & idiotic & my beloved friend
Just want to tell u, I’ll be there till the end.
I lay down quietly, thinking about me & u
And the days we shared,
Which conveyed that once, we both cared!
My shoulder for support is almost gone,
I wonder who would be there when things are wrong,
Now that we are going separate ways,
My hands rise to wipe the tears of memorable days.
I just want it to be the same,
But sadly things have to change.
I accept the note and move on,
Only to realize that there won’t be some one like u,
And while walking my heart talks to my mind- “Hold On!!”
I console myself, I handle the way,
And once again I get friendship-struck with attachment rays.
Hence I would like to tell you my dear friend,
You will be there in my heart,
And I will be there till the end!

DAY – by – DAY nothing changes, but when you look back everything is different!

When I and you were young, we never knew we would go through various groups of memories. We had remarkable intervals, muddy days, cheerful friends and beautiful games to play with. Being lost in those filth and glides, time repeatedly de-stresses us without us being versed. The day passed as fast as the pace of our breath. Pre-primary & primary, middle-school followed by high school, junior college and then graduation; all these expressed exciting! Those days we always wanted holiday and college to be the chief portion of our life. But today, we realize how important those young days were.

The favorite past time was serving and motivating. As we were hurt, our so called naughty friends would turn to us with drug and care. Our love was more like that of holding hands. What mattered was what was my crush wearing? LOL. All this sounds so irresponsible and unwise to us. But the fact is: those were the HAPPY TIMES. As we grew up, we saw our mentality changed with time and so did our hair-do, clothes, words and also to mention friends as well. We enjoy with each division of friends, love, and rejoice every moment yet. Every single day there is either add on or subtractions of people in life. But we really dint pay attention to until everything is as per say.

Bit by bit, all those acquaintances, known faces to be precise, move in their way promising to be there forever. We entered the most developed phase, until pressure took place. Parties were replaced to meetings, skinned knees to broken hearts, love to hate and it goes on. Stress and Betrayal have taken over by each one of us. We now realize things have changed severely, and to that extent that we can do nothing about it than crib. We are surrounded by problems every single day.  We wish for those kind words by our notorious friends but only to realize that it was passe. It really saddens me to know how those naughty friends can change to selfish ones. Their crush changes to that one person whom they will turn to in want. And most of all see their shoulder dropping down for those who were once their closest.

And now, I wouldn’t ever get that close if I knew that things would be so different then. Who would want to get attached and then detach later when in reality, in need? When they were once your soul mates? I kept searching for myself, MY SOUL. I questioned every day until I realize, why people say: WE CAME IN THIS WORLD ALONE & WILL GO ALONE!