Why on earth each day I hear about fights and break-ups? Each moment there is someone crying, someone going through a terrible time, misunderstanding, someone winning a break up or probably, it can be worst. Relations! I tell you. But let me clear: I don’t consider relations as only love or seeing each other. For me it includes all possible relations i.e. Love, friendship, anything that connects 2 people together would be considered as RELATION! Talk about an 8 yearlong relation or maybe 1, it can be 6 months as well; love diminishes or it gets converted to adjustments/compromise to anything.
For instance, my friend was dating for 2 years. If you see them, you say they are madly in love. They were engaged as well. And one fine day, he comes to me and says: “I have moved on” reason being too much of fights. Like can fights have no solution? Or probably they are bored of each other? Or may be expectations are left unfulfilled?
Another instance would be of that of best of friends. People are known to be loved more by friends rather than lovers, yet there are people giving up on friends just as they have entered into a new relation. Imagine years long or probably childhood friends giving up their friendship for the new relation. Immaturity, How foolish can this be? I have always been of the view that friendship lasts long. But after I witnessed this, I was shocked. Left broken and in a way felt betrayed. I agree to a point that they have their priority/preference set on their loved ones, but that doesn’t mean that the entire friendship is on a toss. Is it really??
Another would be that of father son relation. A son throws his parents out once he is able to earn, settled, satisfy him. What about the years where his parents have struggled to get him to this phase? I don’t understand why we are being so materialistic for each and every thing in life.
I find it very crappy as when one chooses a relation over the other. Things have been changing over the years. Earlier, relations were maintained till death. As time passed, relations have been on toss for materialistic reasons. My point is why can’t we give more and expect less? Why can’t we handle all relations together? Why are we giving up on everything, which once we loved, just to satisfy our ego?
My motive for this is solely to spread a message amongst everyone about things happening around intentionally/ unintentionally. Do you have any idea why? Please let me know.
